What's up Spencer fam! He may just need to know more about pregnancy and childbirth in general. Baby your nose. so I have this same problem but all the time not just when I'm pregnant. My sense of smell is so heightened that when I kiss my husband I can't inhale while he exhales because it just smells so bad. I love him to pieces though. yeah I was so glad to know this was a common symptom. Search for a book online or in bookstores geared towards educating new dads about the stages of pregnancy and what to expect. Thank you all for your continued support, do enjoy don't forget to click thumbs up and watch to end. It's not even nasty morning breath. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and for the last week or so I have threw up everyday and not really a fan of food at the moment or certain smells. What's up Spencer fam! I cant wait for my sense of smell to go away The other week my husband ate Indian food at work that had garlic and I couldnt let him near me for 3 days because its all I could smell on him! You both need that closeness right now. Hormones. My husband has terrible halitosis. Your post will be hidden and deleted by moderators. I told him a thousand times and he kept eating them and wanting kisses. On a completely unhelpful note, but one I find interesting: evolutionary psychology is kind of BS imho but I read a study once about women's attraction to men based on their pregnancy status. It went away in 2nd trimester but is coming back now. 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. Same here! I assume he has a sinus infection or something, but he says he doesn't. Just I drag DH into the bathroom with me before bed and we both do the full oral hygiene routine together. YES! okay, well at least I am not the only one! During your pregnancy, you'll have changes in your senses of smell and taste. Over the past two years, it has got worse. You may be feeling needy right now, but if you find your husband not supportive during pregnancy, it may be time to turn the tables. same here. With more women like you. Dh smells good but when he drinks I can smell the beer and I hate it and he knows to distance himself a little bit because it makes me sick. mode biologically, you'll find yourself attracted to men who will give you a good genetic match because they're different from you, and then when you actually GET pregnant (or your body thinks you are) you seek out men who are similar to you genetically, or likely related to you (brothers, cousins, family members) because they will likely serve as good protectors when you're prego and vulnerable. I was the same as you. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. I feel so bad feeling the way I do. A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. They found that women who were pregnant or on progesterone birth control (which kind of mimics pregnancy) preferred the scent of men who were more genetically related to them, and that women who were not pregnant preferred the scent of men who were more genetically different. I couldn't even stand him talking remotely near me the other night - and we were outside! Eventually he should realize that the smell of drinking is really a problem when he wakes up alone. It is not exactly BO or bad breath, it is like a sour smell coming from his insides. It never use to be this way, I use to love the smell of him and now I gag and I tell him about it and feel horrible. Weight gain, getting the nursery ready, so many things, and if your partner is unsupportive, it makes all these burdens that much harder. Do some research and find articles you can share with him that will help him understand what you're going through. I cant find a reason. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images Serena Williams says she remembers unexplainedly "hating" her husband Alexsis Ohanian and "his smell" during. I didn't mind it before pregnancy but now it's just hideous. The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. It's probably just you. FWIW, I think I also think my body smells worse. I am on week 25 and still sensitive!!! A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. What to Expect supports Group Black Opens a new window and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. Give Him Time. Report. 31 Posted by ftm | boy | May 2019 3 years ago Archived 13 Weeks Pregnant and I Can't Stand the Smell of Kissing My Husband. Now is the perfect time to start your Baby Registry! It does go away the minute you give birth! They will need almost constant attention unless they are sleeping. I can't stand the way my husband smells. I used to love it lol but now that I'm pregnant again it's been tough. Which makes sense when you're feeling a little queasy. It's all hormones. I've tried asking him nicely to brush his teeth or things before sexy time, because I've identified that beer breath is a no-go, but he just blows up and starts yelling saying how I don't love him, and think he's unattractive. Privacy Policy. While I have been pregnant, I can't stand the smell of our front stair case, it doesn't smell BAD, it just smells STRONG! Common causes of hyperosmia include: Pregnancy. We respect everyones right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expects Terms of Use. Like before I'm out of the hospital, I think. Your post will be hidden and deleted by moderators. Hahaha I totally get this. March 11, 2020 You can't stand your husband anymore! I can even smell it when we're not close! You have a baby on the way. You may find your husband not supportive during pregnancy, and going out more often with friends, but once the baby is born he turns around and stays home more. It doesnt make any sense. Read what Prudie had to say in Part 1 of this week's live chat. in today's video we will explain out experience being pregnant so far. Everyday life, everyday problems. We would like to show you a description here but the site won't allow us. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. And when were in bed if he breaths in my direction for even a second I feel sick. 13 votes, 16 comments. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. 1 This can mean that smells that you never noticed before are right in your face and overwhelming. We live in a 1br and we do.not.have.a.couch so it's bed or floor for me. Having a baby is a big responsibility for both of you as parents. 08/11/2022 22:06. Lmao yeah mine started to question if he had an abscess or something, poor guy haha. Me too!!! From relationship goals to sex advice: if it's about sex or relationships, share it here. ditto! think twice before sharing personal details, foster a friendly and supportive environment, remove fake accounts, spam and misinformation, delete posts that violate our community guidelines, reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts. I swear to god I can smell hormones too. I dont know how to bring it up with him. While there are many movies and TV shows that may show pregnancy and childbirth in the plot, many are either overdramatized and scary, or dont give enough real life information on how things really are. Lol. People who have a hard childhood and suffer from childhood abuse often have to process memories of these times as they face parenthood. Scan this QR code to download the app now. 28. Even after he showers I can start to smell his odor in an hr or so. It made me so nauseous! for him its not a sinus infection but I have no clue what it is. Do you think he has a problem or is it me? This is one of the things I cant WAIT for after delivery! Follow us on Instagram! You may be feeling needy right now, but if you find your husband not supportive during pregnancy, it may be time to turn the tables. It's much better now (27 weeks) and now my husband smells SO GOOOOOD lololol. My husband is a very clean and hygienic guy and normally smells so good! I threw up on my husband so he could figure it out cuz he wasn't getting it (I know im dramatic but I needed him to understand and words werent working). Website Design by Anchored Design. But OMG since pregnancy he absolutely stinks! He may be trying to figure out how to make things work with a baby in your life, and thinking the same things you are. Please help, is anyone finding that their partner's "stench" is suddenly absolutely repulsive!? But also what can you do? "The . It's the opposite of a craving, and like cravings, food aversions are very common during pregnancy. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. Not so sure about that one. Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. He doesn't smell but lately every smell from him is driving me crazy. You will need to reassure, educate, and give him time to process. My husband is the sweetest and kindest man so every time I tell him I know it really hurts his feelings. A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. Your just extra sensitive to smells right now. It persists all day, even after he brushes his teeth, and worsens with the drinking and smoking. This is hilarious I havent had these sensitivities since second trimester but I feel your pain! It is driving me batty! It wasn't just my husband though - I could smell EVERYONE. You guys, I feel like a monster sometimes. And I agree, Omg i thought it was just me getting annoyed about smells of my boyfriend. Use of this site is subject to our terms of use and privacy policy. If he is very social and enjoys time to himself, he may be dealing with the fact that another person is joining your lives. Was your husband abused or neglected as a child? The whole time we were there he wanted to be snuggly and affectionate and all I wanted to do was push him away. If it is early in your pregnancy, your husband may need time to grasp what is happening. 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Group Black's collective includes Essence Opens a new window, The Shade Room Opens a new window and Naturally Curly Opens a new window. Take a bubble bath or shower together. This article will outline how having an unsupportive partner can affect pregnancy, reasons why this might happen, and tips for dealing with this. I didn't want him near me. Email:private.lives@theguardian.com (please dont send attachments). Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators: Connect with our community members by starting a discussion. It smells like chicken all the time. Like wakes me up sometimes when he is facing me at night bad. It has happened to me :D but he know my smell is really sensitive so I know he won't mind if I say something about it. New here ? If you are pregnant, you should be tested for STDs . All correspondence should reach us by Wednesday morning. Ive googled. 22/03/2020 08:26. I love my husband and all I want to do is be close to him and I am so sad that this is making it hard to be near him. had this with our first my entire pregnancy. My husband is a very clean and hygienic guy and normally smells so good! Group Black's collective includes Essence Opens a new window, The Shade Room Opens a new window and Naturally Curly Opens a new window. He sleeps on the sofa every night as his breathing makes me want to suffocate him! This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. Errsbear11 just tell him you cant and you dont mean to damper his day. Im glad it went away for you! Is any one else having this issue?is there a way to change it? it's so weird! Like wakes me up sometimes when he is facing me at night bad. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. and our It's his breath and I tell him that. The study was used to try to explain why women choose guys who are bad for them which is why it's total BS, but it's interesting nonetheless I'll see if I can find a free link. Between that and my non-existent sex drive, I feel really bad for him. Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). I don't know if it's heightened sense of smell or what, but I'm completely unable to kiss my husband right now. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. But when you're not pregnant and looking for a "mate" you're attracted to people with pheromones that differ from yours (meaning a genetically diverse offspring, which is likelier to survive with lower chances of abnormalities). In bed I have to be turned the other way or else I start gagging! Can't stand my husband's breath mommy_2b_ 02/12/15 I feel horrible even saying this but I can't stand my husbands breath. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. When does the strong sense of smell go away?! I hate it, He love its. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. Learn more about, Learn About What to Expect's Pregnancy & Baby App. Thank yo. Onions on errything. My husband's breath drives me crazy. It seems to be getting worse and persists even after he brushes his teeth. , i wouldnt say mines smell bothers me but just him breathing on me does lol. So when you're pregnant, you're inclined to be repelled by the pheromones you normally are attracted to. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. I Regained My Smell After COVID. How do I talk to him about this? They often kick in with morning sickness, starting around week 5 or 6 of pregnancy. yeah thats unfair! Saline washes and sprays can help keep your nasal passages moist and healthy (and also help with congestion, another common pregnancy complaint). My kind husband keeps breath mints on hand and takes one before kissing me now, and if he doesn't have one then I hold my breath. When she was born I totally missed him and wanted to cuddle him all the time. Its unfortunately common. What to Expect supports Group Black Opens a new window and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. And when he dips I can hardly be around him. In other words, when you're in "GET ME PREGNANT!" This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. No kidding. Lol. No major problems. This is my second child and it doesn't last the whole pregnancy, you will feel normal again. Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, 2023 Guardian News & Media Limited or its affiliated companies. This made me lol for real. Pregnancy is weird, yo. I always have to roll over, definitely can't be breathing in his same air. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. It never use to be this way, I use to love the smell of him and now I gag and I tell him about it and feel horrible. Use of this site is subject to our terms of use and privacy policy. Here are some things you can try: 1. Heartbreak If You're Suddenly Disgusted By Your Partner, It May Be Sudden Repulsion Syndrome The reason you're over it, explained. It's so strange. Reddit, Inc. 2023. His natural "morning" smell is now repulsive to my pregnant nose. In my world, its normal. I assume he has a sinus infection or something, but he says he doesnt. I can't even stand to sleep in bed with him. In the first trimester, many pregnant women have food aversions rather than cravings. And lately it has been waking me up in the middle of the night. I also worry that during delivery I will get all annoyed by his nose air smell but I want him there next to me supporting me. Aug 18, 2017 at 7:00 PM Ok so this one has to be my LEAST favorite pregnancy symptom. Im having the same issue. Here are some things you can try: If it is still early on, give him time to process things. why is this a thing?! and our Call one of us friends to drink with him. Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. Please consider especially how your words or the tone of your message could be perceived by someone in this situation, and be aware that comments that appear to be disruptive or disrespectful to the individual concerned will be removed. I drag DH into the bathroom with me before bed and we both do the full oral hygiene routine together. No one else smells this, it is just my weird pregnancy nose. yes! So I've heard this is biological - basically when you're pregnant, you're more inclined to surround yourself with close family members (who have similar pheromones as you). I dont think they are supposed to . Create an account or log in to participate. Van Bennekom says the most common aversions his patients report are related to more aromatic foods, or those with odd consistencies. Thank you God's for another weekend . I cannot stand it. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. More relevant communities. I don't know what to do. All rights reserved. If your sex life has gone downhill lately, find new ways to be intimate with each other. You can't help your sense of smell and aversions. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I can smell it even without the pregnancy nose lol! I loved his natural odor before pregnancy but now I hate it. You both are going to need to be on the same page, and communicating effectively to raise this baby. We got married on 11/1 and just got back from a delayed honeymoon in Jamaica. She's tackling the stuff you are desperate to know right now so if you have a question, ask Heidi here or on Facebook and she might answer in an upcoming column. December 2014. Privacy Policy. Pregnancy is so frustrating and I feel terrible cause he can tell and I had to just tell him. It's a girl!!! it's awful! This is good to hear! This baby will take both of you 24/7 working hard to make sure he or she is; fed, clothed, bathed, played with, and safe. why?! Ive told him he has to sleep facing the other way or Ill get sick , Yep. 25 weeks pregnant. I feel like it was bad first trimester and came back for third. lol the other day I literally called him out on having an extra glass of whiskey the night before because I could sniff it on his breath! Create an account or log in to participate. 166 M y husband has terrible halitosis. Same with my face wash. Maybe you will all think I am crazy, but my husbands nose air smells bad to me. Its driving me nuts! The worst! The smell of my husbands breathe and the smell of his sneezes instant ! why?! You haven't seen eye-to-eye in a while, and it's not improving. He may be worried this is going to continue through the entire pregnancy. Use of this site is subject to our terms of use and privacy policy. I keep pushing his face away from mine when we're sleeping. Before pregnancy I actually liked my husbands smell even in the morning he didn't seem to smell bad at all. I'm sorry your poor hubby is feeling the wrath of the sense of smell symptom, let him know he is not alone! The problem is it isaffecting intimacy; just being in proximity with him is difficult. Madison arrived on May 19th at 6:35 am (: We're going shopping today - I need the man equivalent to bath and body works! 2d; View more comments. The smell of him and his breath repulse me. Its gotten better since my third trimester started but it reaaaally contributes to my nausea. He may be thinking he will fail at fatherhood or not be good enough for the child. Just tell him it's normal and that he should take precautions if he wants to have sex / be near you. When you are pregnant, your olfactory sense, your sense of smell may be heightened. Archived post. Ugh. Im honestly like a hound dog! We respect everyones right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expects Terms of Use. You may have been using birth control and it failed, or you might have gotten pregnant against your husband's wishes. I think some fancy soap for him is in orderand extra mouth rinse. You aren't alone! I stopped kissing him when he ate them. think twice before sharing personal details, foster a friendly and supportive environment, remove fake accounts, spam and misinformation, delete posts that violate our community guidelines, reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts. Hyperosmia is most commonly found in pregnant women. Share your journey! Serena Williams married Alexis Ohanian in November 2017. It may not take long for him to get a grip on things. I don't want to be rude to him but it's extremely tough to be around him lately Poor thing! Wash your clothes more often than usual, since fibers tend to hold onto odors. So I don't know. I can't stand the smell of my husband. I think it's a slight issue normally, but the alcohol just goes over the edge. Now im pregnant again I cant stand him. So fun! The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. y husband has terrible halitosis. My husband's breath is so sour to me during pregnancy! I am ready for these weird symptoms to go away! Heidi. The smell of alcohol and smoke both make me want to vomit when I am pregnant. Start by selecting which of these best describes you! Dont be afraid to try new things to satisfy the need for close touch. If my husband drank one sip of alcohol he had to sleep in the other room because I could smell his breath or nose air!! I notice cutting meat out of our diets has made hubbys breath bearable again. Since you already told him the smells bother you there really isn't a need to mention it again. I live in an upstairs flat and the smell started in the kitchen and now I can smell it in my bedroom to the point where I can't really be in there either can't sleep as its all I can smell. Thanks for sticking with us for a full year. Even after he showers I can start to smell his odor in an hr or so. Help Me, Heidi! Before pregnancy, I would love to be close to his face breathing the same air. Ugh I was thinking of posting something about this. Pregnancy does not provide women or their babies any additional protection against STDs. Fathers take on the role of protector of the family and maybe your husband is having issues taking on the responsibility of a totally dependent human being. Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. Your partner may be worried he wont know how to be a dad. This often stems from lack of male role models showing him what to do. Title says it all. All rights reserved. Sure enough got the cavity taken care of and everything is peachy again. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. My H loves onions. If you are suffering from early pregnancy symptoms like morning sickness, poor body image, or spotting, you may not be having as much sex as he is used to. Yes, you can. For some reason my husband gives off this "stink" that literally makes me sick. My husband has literally woken me up because were sleeping with heads turned toward each other, hes breathing out his nose, its going right in my faceand I absolutely cannot stand it . He may be wondering about symptoms, how to watch you for complications, and what delivery is going to be like. He may be trying to figure out how to support a family, child care, and fit your relationship into all of this. If this is your first baby, he may just not understand it. I feel like if he had a sip of beer Id know. We respect everyones right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expects Terms of Use. This educational content is not medical or diagnostic advice. Share your thoughts living the best life here. is a weekly advice column in which What to Expect creator Heidi Murkoff answers your most pressing pregnancy and parenting questions. He cant read your mind. Learn more about, Learn About What to Expect's Pregnancy & Baby App. I buy mouthwash, and dental floss. Over the past two years, it has got worse. So some researchers took pheromone samples (a little pillow placed in a guy's armpit for some time) and had women rate the attractiveness of the scents. I dont think all sneezes do, but my husbands do! And that it gets better. Studies show that if a husband is not supportive, the incidence of postpartum depression in new moms tends to be higher. Lol. (modern). Now I have to tilt my head in another direction or turn the other way so I dont smell his nose air. In pregnancies lacking a supportive partner, there is higher cases of premature delivery and low-birth weight babies. Nothing can be done in the middle of the night, so I often have to turn away from him. Is any one else having this issue?is there a way to change it? Thanksat least I don't feel crazy about this now! Let him know you don't hate him, your hormones do. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. By Gigi Engle Written on Nov 11, 2021 Photo: Getty I don't know. We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. I would just kindly sleep in another room. It got so bad I sent him to the dentist! He did quit smoking, which is amazing and I'm so proud of him, and he even switched from the wintergreen dip to regular so it wouldn't make me sick, but there is still something funky that's making me nauseous at times. I had really strong smell aversions in the first trimester, but this one is sticking around. I have to drive with the window open in the car because it makes me sick. If you are uncomfortable during sex, try some new positions. Only on the app. I am 12 wks and I cant stand my husbands natural odor!! The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of What to Expect. I experienced this big time around 15-20 weeks. Keep clean. Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators: Connect with our community members by starting a discussion. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Everything TTC: Questions, answers, and support! Over the past two years, it has got worse. Your post will be hidden and deleted by moderators. He'll be like I just brushed!! I am making him use some nasal sprays. M/c-April 30th. You did it! I never realized sneezes had a smell . They do crazy things to you, and I think it's the only logical (even though it's not that logical) answer. I made up some bs about "needing his support to be better about flossing and stuff because pregnancy ruins your teeth" but my real motive was getting him to stop breathing in my fucking face all night. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. If the pregnancy was an attempt to save your marriage, and its not working, now is the time to get some counseling. I'm so glad I'm not the only one. During my pregnancy and breastfeeding days, I thought I was overly sensitive but when my hormones normalised and it seemed the condition was getting worse, I realised it wasnt me. Even after he brushed his teach I'm naseaus smelling it. Ok so this one has to be my LEAST favorite pregnancy symptom. In the last few weeks I've really become sensitive to my husband's breath. He may just not know what to think of all of this. During my pregnancy and breastfeeding days, I thought I was overly sensitive but when my hormones normalised and it seemed the condition was getting worse, I realised it wasnt me. Someone said that when you are pregnant, you can't stand the smell of things that aren't good for your baby. He's pretty good about not taking it personally. My husband and I are going through this as we speak. Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). Pregnancy Everything Pregnancy I'm Pregnant and I Hate the Way My Partner Smells Pregnancy symptoms can be weird, but a heightened sense of smell might be one of the most unpleasant. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, who wrote to Private Lives asking for help, and may well view your comments here. and he feels so bad but there's nothing he can do! Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. Maybe you will all think I am crazy, but my husbands nose air smells bad to me. But honestly he will pick me up and I can get in the car and be like did you just sneeze in here??? BFP#1- April 24th. This is a summary of my first trimester experience. Please whitelist our site to get all the best deals and offers from our partners. Do I have super powers? Your new baby, especially if you breastfeed, will take up a lot of your time. These are some things that cause men to be unsupportive of pregnancy: If you were not planning to have a baby, your husband or partner may be in shock over the unexpected news. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I used to love it lol but now that Im pregnant again its been tough. You can't help your sense of smell and aversions. Your husband may be a little sad about losing himself, and becoming a father. This is a summary of my first trimester experience. Not his breath, but his nose air. Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone. If he is distant, he may not know that you need extra attention and support right now. Been with my partner a few years. But it's both his breath from his mouth and his nose air, haha. I can't find a reason. The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of What to Expect. I can't snuggle up next to him without the overwhelming smell pushing me away. I have been experiencing smell aversion, which is normal , but recently I started hating my own smell when I use the bathroom or even when I am just sitting still. No one else can smell anything at all I'm going insane!!! Weird . Soooo happy to read that I'm not the only one! 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. that makes me feel SO much better. He may need to voice his feelings to you too. This means taking baby places, less nights out, and very little me time in the near future. I feel nauseous kissing him, I have been avoiding him :(It didnt go away after 1st trimester! Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. If it is still early on, give him time to process things. Unfortunately, I knew I was pregnant this time around because again his smell repulsed me. I was like ummm no we need a second opinion lmao! Can't be in the kitchen otherwise I'm sick. This is very common. (: I have no idea when the super sense of smell goes away though lol, ugh, I almost want to send him to the doctor, but I doubt he would go. Cookie Notice Pregnancy can be a stressful time, and if you have a husband not being supportive, it can be even more stressful. I sure hope it goes away after pregnancy! And hes be in the spare bedroom ASAP lol. You worry about you and your babys health. Not only that, Thorne says pregnancy symptoms like shortness of breath, back pain, nausea, and hemorrhoids may also cause a woman to be more irritable and impatient. We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. Women who are pregnant can become infected with the same STDs as women who are not pregnant. Your partner may not be ready to share you and your time with someone else. I used to love his smell, even the smell of his breath and it completely smelt different when I got pregnant. Ever since I got pregnent I absolutely cannot stand the smell of my husband. For advice from Pamela Stephenson Connolly on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns. Also this is my 6th pregnancy, 5th to get this far, and I 100% have this issue every time and it always goes away like immediately after birth. His natural smell used to be a comfort to me and now I have to hold my breath to kiss him or snuggle him for a bit. What I think? I'm hoping he "gets it" after last night. I don't know what it is, but I swear I can smell vinegar on my husband. My husband can go outside for all of 5 minutes and I swear he smells like he's done 2 hours of crossfit. Oh girl !!! I felt like it was done, but then it came back with vengeance for third trimester. I wanted to have sex all that time and felt even more in love with him everyday. Before I was pregnant, I always loved his smell. Maybe even just cuddle and watch movies. Meanwhile, your husband doesn't understand why you keep complaining about the same things. Log in or sign up to post a comment! He usually just has a close stubble shave which I love, and he really doesnt have the beard gene, which he knows. Most of the time you might think it's no big deal, but many pregnant women report gagging or becoming ill over a smell in the area. , Same. think twice before sharing personal details, foster a friendly and supportive environment, remove fake accounts, spam and misinformation, delete posts that violate our community guidelines, reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts. BFP#2-September 11th. EDD: May 25th. I have to sleep away from my husband. I was trying to be nice for awhile and tell him the beer breath was making me nauseous but my niceness stopped when I started gagging over his smell. Not sure how true this is but it kinda makes sense to me. Hopefully his nose air wont be too bothersome after baby comes :) good luck! He gets so upset. During my first trimester I went through the same thing; it just faded away once I entered the second which I'm glad for I felt bad lol. I hate that I cant stand the smell of my husband! This can often have even more negative implications on the relationship if your partner was not ready, or did not think it was a good time for you to have a baby. "Is it too harsh. Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). If you would like fellow readers to respond to a dilemma of yours, send us an outline of the situation of about 150 words. And what would he tell them my pregnant wife says my nose air smells!. I can't stand my own smell, either and my toddler always smells like milk to me, even though I bathe him every day, brush his teeth and put clean clothes on him. Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators: Connect with our community members by starting a discussion. Stm- when does this super smeller of mine go away. Leave your windows open whenever possible to banish cooking or musty odors. right?! Get weekly updates on baby and your body. What to Expect supports Group Black Opens a new window and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. And they said he has "perfect teeth and no cavities everything is good!" I don't know if it's heightened sense of smell or what, but I'm completely unable to kiss my husband right now. If we are facing each other I have to make sure my nose is above his. I dont want to be rude to him but its extremely tough to be around him lately, Omg Im the same! When I go to kiss him or he talks close to me right now, all I can smell is his breath and it smells bad to me! I HATE the way my house smells when I'm pregnant. Since I became pregnant my nose seems has become super sensitive. A food aversion is when you can't stand to eat (or even smell) a food. He's NEVER had bad breath before and I'll smell it even if he just brushes. Often, women may try to have a baby to bring positive change to a marriage that is failing. I know a lot of men have beards but its not for meee. So funny! Same ! Ugh. I have suggested that he change what he drinks and eats; Ive suggested we both make dental appointments, but he missed his. You may think nothing of it, but he may be fearful that he may not be able to provide or care for a child. 2 of 10,000 . Then we can take a look at a few solutions to help. I know my sense of smell is outrageous right now Lol same thing happened to me. in today's video we will explain out experience being pregnant so far. . 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. He usually ends up sleeping on the couch! This happened with my first and now again with this little one. I had this with my first pregnancy and it happened again with this one. I could smell my boyfriends cavity. For more information, please see our If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. intensivepurposes member. You will need to reassure, educate, and give him time to process. In early pregnancy, it may even cause complications. My husband recently switched to a new deodorant. I am like a human breathalyzer with my husband! Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone. My husband has decided to grow a beard for some reason and I hate it soooooo much. So during my first trimester, I couldn't get enough of him. He may be trying to figure out how to . I am 12 wks and I can't stand my husbands natural odor!! First, we need to look at some of the reasons why your partner may be apprehensive about your pregnancy. Good luck! I keep reminding him I love him, even despite his stinky nose air! Same here though. I've had to move to the couch in the middle of the night several times because I can't stand his smell. You ponder if you want to continue working after you have the baby. I've googled. Sometimes I feel like it smells up our whole bedroom! Anyone else experience this? Like their skin and their hair. :( our poor men! Its so strong . I have to put up some type of barrier if we face each other! Create an account or log in to participate. ugh I hope this goes away soon. At first it smelt like stale smoke in the kitchen from . When does the strong sense of smell go away?! Many STDs are 'silent,' or have no symptoms, so you may not know if you are infected. Go ahead and subscribe for more content. He had drank a redbull that afternoon DH knows he has to brush his teeth, use mouthwash, and shower with good smelling body wash before bed. I cant wait to have a normal nose again! Just tell him it's normal and that he should take precautions if he wants to have sex / be near you. This may be making him cranky. The smell of him and his breath repulse me. More ways to message. Speak up in a kind and calm manner. I asked him to get either a scentless one or go back to the one he had been using for the past 8 years! By Danny M. Lavery April 19, 20213:35 PM Photo. Hey man, I'm in that boat. when we eat meat, I swear I can smell it digesting when he speaks to me! Now I Can't Stand My Fianc's Scent. I can't stand the heat or smell from him sleeping. It's terrible! During my pregnancy and breastfeeding days, I thought I was overly sensitive but when my hormones. Your email address will not be published. Learn more about, I Never Thought I'd Be a Single Parent Now I Can't Imagine Doing It Any Other Way, Learn About What to Expect's Pregnancy & Baby App. This. Group Black's collective includes Essence Opens a new window, The Shade Room Opens a new window and Naturally Curly Opens a new window. Cookie Notice I'm 9 weeks today and just want to curl up against him and sleep without getting sick!! We'll see. Like, I want to cuddle when we are watching a movie or something, but then that nose air its ruining things! So they suggested that perhaps your spouse wasn't good for the baby. He's all about hygiene but I said babe you stink, you should go to the dentist. But he sneezesviolently lol, oh my goodness! It's hard to narrow down exactly why you feel this way, but everything he does gets on your nerves. my husband's sinuses or something smell horrible so when he breaths on or near me at night through his nose I cant stand the smell. Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone. The stench on his breath makes me want to gag. For more information, please see our We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. I had the same problem during my first pregnancy, I could not stand the smell of my husband (who showers religiously and Wears cologne that I chose for him lol).

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